"Repose, not Red-Bull, is key when it comes to moments of
insight." ~Sam McNerney
A few days ago I was
compelled to write about dreams on my blog after
having an incredible dream, the theme of which has been one of many missing
links in the book I am writing. In the blog post I talk about how dreams and
lucid dreams can and have inspired me to write creatively.
Ironically, the last
few nights I’ve been having a phase of insomnia. And during last night’s 2 or 3
o’clock wake up that lasted - or at least seemed to last – hours, I started
thinking about sleep – as you do.
During the last couple
of months sleep has become something incredibly important to me, it is
something I have become quite conscious of, rather than having it be something
that I have to do and get out of the way. The reason for this is because I have
been extremely busy with lots of different things, which has often led to
phases of stress, anxiety and exhaustion, and therefore I have felt just how
important making time for sleep, rest and relaxation is. It shouldn’t be a
luxury - and yet I think often it is treated as that - it should be our
default. Quite simply stress is disgusting and unnecessary.
I know, I know, you're
probably thinking, "what is she on about…relaxation??! I'm a writer,
stress is my lifestyle!!!" …but allow me to explain how I tie this into
writing...
Last night during my
insomnia I thought up the title to this blog. As my blog post about dreams suggests, I have
very often thought that to be able to be in a space of insight and creativity
your body and mind have to be relaxed. I guess that doesn’t sound like much of
a myth. But actually, often creative writers, especially those of us who don’t
yet make a living out of what we do, are compelled to use as much time as we
possibly can to write and think about writing (often feeling guilty if we
don’t). We come home from our day jobs, have dinner, and then write into the
night, get a few hours sleep and then get up early next morning to leave for
our day jobs. And don’t get me wrong, I am thankful for the days when I do come
home and write into the night (to be honest those are sometimes few and far
between, due to exhaustion or simply writer’s block). And it is great to do
that, because otherwise when else could we possibly write? However, my only
point is that if you are feeling run down and stressed out from the lifestyle
you lead and are forcing yourself to write despite your writers block, you
could just benefit from some rest. Because, let’s face it, consciously forcing
yourself to get that all-important ‘big idea’ or insight is the best way to
avoid it.
Sometimes all it takes
is an early night, a relaxing walk, a shower, sitting on the loo for longer
than necessary, (yes, you did just read that correctly) or allowing yourself to
‘do nothing and just sit there’ on your commute to or from work – and the brain
is finally allowed to breathe and voila, insight just happens! That missing
spark appears.
There are countless
examples of people (considered geniuses) who have had incredible sparks of
inspiration in moments otherwise considered mundane or unproductive…or in their
sleep. Albert Einstein, for example, had a dream
that helped to influence his theory of relativity.
We don’t think, thinking just happens, and funnily enough creative
thoughts most often come when we train ourselves to think less – or at least
watch our habitual thoughts and recognise them for the pointless chatter that
they are. You’d think that thinking more is the mother of great books and
ideas, but actually it takes a certain type of thinking. Insight comes when we
quiet the mind, or, like I said, recognise the constant habitual mind chatter
for what it is, because only then do we create a space for something that comes
from somewhere a little deeper, somewhere non-habitual.
So, dear Brit Writers, never underestimate the power of rest, and the negative
effect stressing about writing can have on your writing. Most of all make sure
you enjoy your life as a writer as fully as possible. There. I said it. You
heard it here first. You ARE allowed to relax.
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